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What to Do When Success No Longer Feels Like Success
Gordon Gekko speech from Wall Street At some point in your career or your life, you start asking different questions. Not How do I get ahead? But What am I building? Not How do I lead others? But Am I leading in a way that actually feels like me? This shift rarely happens overnight. It develops gradually, often through fatigue or underlying restlessness: There’s got to be more than this. You might know the feeling. You’ve done the work, built the resume, and earned the respec

StevenMiyao
Oct 144 min read


Executive Recruiter on Midlife Career Challenges and Finding Purpose
In this week’s Midlife Remix, I sat down with Paige Scott, Senior Partner and leader of the Asset Management practice at Kingsley Gate, to talk about the crossroads many Gen X leaders are facing: career transition, changing values, multi‑generational teams, and the courage it takes to live and lead from alignment.
Below are the core themes from our conversation, the questions I’m asking clients right now, and a simple practice Paige swears by to re‑center your path.

StevenMiyao
Sep 305 min read


From Fear to Alignment: Redefining Success, Leadership, and the Self
“I was afraid the whole thing would collapse. That I’d have to tell the people who trusted me that I lost their money. I was under pressure. And I wasn’t s

StevenMiyao
Sep 23 min read


Leading in the AI Era: How Experienced Leaders Can Stay Relevant and Shape the Future
Leadership has always involved guiding teams through uncertainty, making tough decisions, choosing priorities, and building on years of experience. Artificial intelligence is transforming how we do this work by changing the pace and tools available. We will always need leaders, but the real question is: which leaders will develop the skills to select the right priorities, understand AI, and leverage it effectively in an AI-driven world?

StevenMiyao
Aug 55 min read


From Strength to Purpose: Redefining Leadership in Midlife
What if the qualities that got you here - certainty, drive, expertise aren’t what will carry you forward?
In this conversation, Brett Wright reflects on a personal and professional shift that many high-achieving leaders eventually face but rarely talk about: what happens when your identity has been shaped by performance, and suddenly, that’s not enough?

StevenMiyao
Jul 285 min read


Could Your Motivation to Succeed Be Preventing Your True Success?
A few years ago, everything looked right on the surface: a respected title, solid compensation, and a seat at the table where decisions were made. It’s the kind of position I once thought I’d wanted.
But instead of feeling fulfilled, I've noticed a feeling of restlessness.. I question whether I’m growing, whether I’m aligned, and if this is it.
I’ve started to see that some of my decisions haven’t been fueled by purpose, but by a fear of losing what I’ve worked so hard

StevenMiyao
Jul 214 min read


What Hip Hop Can Teach You About Leading with Purpose
At some point in your career and in your life, you start asking different questions.
Not How do I get ahead?
But What am I building?
Not How do I lead others?
But Am I leading in a way that actually feels like me?

StevenMiyao
Jul 152 min read


Why Midlife Can Feel Lonely and How Reclaiming Friendship Changes Everything
My uncle, Axel Scholtz, with his friends Our lives are full of responsibility: partners, kids, aging parents, yet what’s often missing in...

StevenMiyao
Jul 15 min read


How Strong Leaders Can Overcome Self-Doubt
How the identity gap impacts your leadership and what to do about it What if the biggest barrier to your leadership impact isn’t what you...

StevenMiyao
Jun 205 min read


A Father’s Day Reflection: What Will My Kids Remember About Me?
Most parents I coach struggle with the same things: trying to be the best parent, figuring out how to take care of their aging parents,...

StevenMiyao
Jun 155 min read


To Begin Your Next Chapter, You Have to Let Go of Who You Were
There’s a feeling of deep melancholy in our generation and a low-level, underlying sense of discomfort that doesn’t always scream for attention, but it’s real. And it’s often the first sign that something deeper needs to shift. For many Gen Xers, it’s the realization they never got to where they thought they’d be, and they quietly carry that disappointment. For others, it’s worse: they got there, did everything right, and discovered they don’t even like what they are doing. A

StevenMiyao
Jun 74 min read


Still Us? Reimagining Your Relationship in Life's Next Chapter
Couples can drift apart without realizing it, somewhere between careers, kids, and simply trying to keep life moving. My wife and I have...

StevenMiyao
May 257 min read


The Overlooked Generation: Why Gen X Feels Stuck (and What to Do About It)
Office Space — Peter Gibbons Leaning Back in His Cubicle It’s 10:00 pm. The dishes are finally done. Your teenager just yelled at you...

StevenMiyao
May 125 min read


You Don’t Need a Plane Crash to Change Your Life
When Maryann Bruce survived US Airways Flight 1549—the "Miracle on the Hudson"—she described it this way: "It’s as if I went to my own...

StevenMiyao
Apr 293 min read


Executive Clarity in a Chaotic World: 5 Stories That Might Change How You Lead
Volatile economic conditions, shifting trade policies, and geopolitical tensions are driving markets down—and creating all kinds of challenges for leaders. For years, rising markets masked leadership gaps.

StevenMiyao
Apr 215 min read


What If the Life You’ve Built Isn’t Yours?
In my conversation with Marni — a transformational coach, speaker, and author of Your Radical Living Challenge — we explored what it means to radically reimagine your life, especially in midlife. From letting go of ego-based “needs” to experimenting with new ways of living, from rebuilding her business with soul to reinventing her marriage through shared values, Marni walked us through the deeply personal (and often uncomfortable) process of aligning with what truly matters.

StevenMiyao
Apr 145 min read


Navigating Economic Uncertainty: For anyone in their 40s or 50s wondering what comes next in their career
If you're in your mid-40s or 50s, this moment may feel like an unraveling. The stock market is plummeting, chipping away at the nest egg you

StevenMiyao
Apr 77 min read


Unemployed and Winning: Why Losing Your Job Might Be the Best Thing That Happens to You
“Some days you feel like you’ll have four competing offers. Other days you’re crying, convinced you’ll never work again.” – Raina Rusnak...

StevenMiyao
Apr 14 min read
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